Thursday, 27 September 2018

Be the best vision of yourself

Everyone wants to be the best but very few succeed in that. Because till now the definition of best for us is entirely different when we say he/she is best the first thing clicks in our mind is a perfect look, an amazing personality, and highly successful person. but is it actually correct? Can we measure the best of a person in terms of looks and money? If this is right than most the billionaire should be happy. Follow the change: This is necessary for all of us to update ourselves with time. If is ask you why you update your applications in the mobile so what will you say? The answer is to get the best version of that application to update mobile. We heard this so many times that “Change is constant ““we have always done this that way” whenever you think this we are out because then we can’t give anything new to the society by being the same. E.g. we always thought that blockbusters movie will be out of the trend but Netflix threw them out because we know that Netflix is trending so fast. So, change is constant as well as essential for us and all of the most beautiful people should be happy. But we often see that very minor percentage of them are happy. Then what is the secret behind the “how to be the best version of yourself “? There is some basic mantra of this let’s check them out.
It doesn’t mean that we have to change our culture, traditions, principles, wisdom because this can never change but how you bring this to peoples can definitely change. and if you don’t cope up with the change you too tagged ‘outdated’.

Live Your Present: Being in the present we don’t have to start getting the present when pressure is high. We need to start practicing being in the present when pressure is low. When we talk about being present one thing that we need to start practicing being physically present and more than that emotionally present. For example, we see people talking chatting with each other and scrolling their mobile, checking out their messages. What they are doing is that they doing distracted and not living to live it now. being emotionally present mean to cultivating the attitude of being present.

Improvise the Present of Your Life: Improving standard of life doesn’t mean to drive a Bentley, to travel in business class, to wear a Rolex or to live in the bungalow NO…… It really doesn’t matter. It only matters that you should never compromise with the standard of your life. It doesn’t standard of your living that makes you happy. And very often we forget to give attention to those things that can truly that makes us happy. Things like Bentley, Rolex etc have utility value only not happiness value. It is good to be ambitious to want about Bentley or bungalow but in doing this never ever compromise on those principles that also improves the standard of life. Because there is more to life than money can buy. And if you than what money can you buy. And if you truly want to know rich you are, drop a tear and see how many hands came to wipe that tear. Our happiness and our increased standard of life are not in luxurious things. It is in the relationship, it’s meaningful heartful deep bonding of love that brings fulfillment to the heart.

The balance between the External and Internal: It is very important for us to balance between our external and internal. External could be seen but internal couldn’t. For example, you could find a person’s personality very attractive and karizmatic but what his/her personality so amazing is the inner pure character of that person. External beauty doesn’t matter, as you could balance that with your extraordinary inner beauty what we have outside is just a casing but the inner value makes our the best version of our self.

Never Leave Hope: I think this one aspect that we all need to accept and come to term with in life, there is going to be things that are beyond our control. Let’s not fight this back and let’s not come into the mode of controllership thinking that everything is in my hands. Because this thinking can disappoint us, frustrate us, when things don’t go our way. So, everything doesn’t go by my watch, life has its watch, higher powers have their watch and thing will come to us. E.g. No actor lasted forever in terms of their fame, no actor will last forever. No athlete, no sportsperson has lasted forever and no sports person will last forever because we know that everyone has their time, everyone has their day and that day just doesn’t last forever. So, this basically means that time changes for everyone no matter where it is at this time. Everyone gets his/her chance to do something in his/her life. So, the parameter, the principle, the value, the ethic that actually help us continue with perseverance and patience is HOPE. Hope is that one element that can keep us going. The worst thing to happen in life is to lose hope and be hopeless so if you sitting there waiting for our turn to come hope against hope. One day I will also have my time and my place. When how we don’t know because there are factors that are completely beyond our control.

Choose between Destiny or Hard Work: what makes us successful? Is it all destiny or it is all our hard work? Well, there are some things in life that we could not choose e.g. we never choose our parents, our looks, our blood-relations this is all our destiny. So, we can say that situations are destiny you didn’t choose them, they came to you. If someone comes and insults you. This situation is destined. But our response to those situations is our choice. The response is not destiny. What we choose in our choice and what we choose it that decide our future destiny. That is why they say that MAN IS THE MAKER OF HIS DESTINY, not situations. Situations will remain what they are but how you respond to those situations is completely and entirely your choice. You have a choice to work hard, to cultivate that attitude. That attitude is not destiny that attitude is the choice and when you choose that attitude, hopefully, victory will come to you right away. Even if it doesn’t come to you right away you have sown the seed that will pay back. That seed that is sown certainly fructify now, after ten years or after twenty years or later. This is why persistence, sticking it out is so much essential.

Be Self-confident, not Arrogant: when we talk about self-confidence it means to be the best version of yourself. There is the very thin line between self-confidence and arrogance and it is important to understand that. First of all, you should know that you are only your own competition actually, nobody is your competition. We have to compete with ourselves every single moment, every single day to get better than ourselves, to get the better version of ourselves, so self-confidence means being the best version of yourself and having that full confidence that I can get there, I can do anything. But if you are arrogant you will definitely think that you are the best in the whole world. Nobody can compete with you, nobody can stand by you. So, a self-confident person is the best version of himself/herself and an arrogant person is best in the whole universe, actually he/she is not but he/she thinks like that so, be self-confident not arrogant because confidence make you a strong person, a determined person, and arrogance makes you an over-smart person, which I think nobody wants to be.

True Mantra for Happiness: Money is the basic need of our life without money there is nothing wrong possessing you, earn more money, fulfill your needs, utilize your money to share and serve others and transform the value of money from currency to happiness. Earning money mere give you happiness but when we share it with someone who really needs it more than anyone then only you find peace and satisfaction. There are the precious feelings which can never buy by money can earn only earn by helping those who are needy and poor. This is only Mantra of happiness “If you help others God will help you” sharing is earning. I read once that “The happiest people don’t have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything.

So, friends follow these easy steps and you could be the best version of yourself. Hope you like my first try for a motivational post about this.


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